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1. What are the biggest problem that your family encountered and how your family overcome with that problem?
- the biggest problem of my family encountered is the relationship between my father and my sibling. My sibling is the middle child. my father always angry with him because he is a stubborn child. They are always fighting with each other. They are close so that there is no good harmonious relationship between them. We cope this problem with the help of my mother. My mother always talk to them regarding to their problem. My father and my sibling both love my mother so that sometimes they listen to her. My mother always pray to the almighty God for the good of our family.
2. Are you ready to have a family in the near future? And we as a future parents also, what are you going to establish a rules and regulation around your family?
- I am very much ready to enter in a married life at my right age at the near future. I am ready to have my own family. As a future mother, I'll make sure that we will have good relationships. In having a good relationships with my children, I will do my best to become a good mother to them. I will become involve on the happenings to their lives. I will support and guide them in their path.I'll make sure that my children have discipline through establishing rules and regulations. It will helps me to manage the behavior of my kids.
3.How are you going to maintain the good interaction within your family?
- In order to maintain the good interaction between the family member, there should always be having a family hour. This is the time when each member of the family sit altogether in one place.to talk about the things that they wanted to talk about. They could talk about the problems arose in their family. This is also the time that each family member of a family express their feelings with each other.
4.Is it good to have a pattern of leadership and power manifest in the family?
- For me, having a pattern of leadership and power manifest is somehow good and bad in the structure of a family. It is bad if it is use in a wrong way. Like in our family, the leader or boss is my father. My father use his authority to discipline is in a right way. Even if he is the boss, he also accept our suggestions but the last word always on him. Power manifest helps to introduce the duties and responsibilities of the children inside the house.
5. You as a future educator, how are you going to develop the self-esteem of your students?
- Self-esteem is very important capability of a child. Me, as a future teacher I will encourage my pupil to become confident at all time. I will encouraging words to him or her. I will teach his/her to accept the responsibilities. I will also give some instances that show how self-esteem help to the child to become a better individual. I will also pursue him/her to become positive thinker.
6. What is the difference between naturalistic change and therapeutic change.
- Naturalistic change is different from therapeutic change. Naturalistic change focus in the natural change in the relationship of a family while therapeutic change focus on how change occurs in a family therapy session.